Monday, June 4, 2012

The rest of Monday…

 

We did finally get a naptime completed – see picture below.  We never did get the backpack or shoes off.   Shoes are going to come off before bed, but we will probably let her sleep with the backpack if it becomes an issue.

 

We ventured out for a few groceries and road the toddler roller-coaster (aka escalator).  She had a blast with that!  We knew that the Chinese people were going to stare and were mentally prepared for that, but didn't expect to be stopped on the street – 2 times in our 3 block walk.  We probably should have made little cards in Chinese with a polite statement of our situation.

 

We have mastered bathroom communication and she is indeed potty trained as we suspected. 

 

Tomorrow is more official stuff in the morning and then downtime in the afternoon.  We met another family from Utah adopting a little 8 yr old boy, so we might try to hook up with them if they are game.

 

If you are an adoptive family in the wait – put this on your list of things to think about.  We were going to download some blockbuster movies on demand to watch.  I think you have a few days to watch it from the time you START to watch it.  Anyway you are not allowed to download or rent movies from outside the US, so plan ahead. J Also, our hotel does not have on-demand movies either on the TV.

 

All in all, we put today down in the success books – we are so thankful that she is peaceful and even if at times nervous, she does seem to be agreeable to hang out with us.


She is definitely much more comfortable with "mama" and Dana is doing a great job building on their relationship. She is becoming more comfortable with Rob as the day rolled on as he was able to feed her dinner and play with her until bedtime. Tonight she was repeating words from a picture book that Rob was reading to her, which was super cute. Towards the end of the night, she was "talking" more and more. Some of it sounds like actual Chinese words and others sound like 2 year old babble.

 

We were told by the orphanage worker that Ellie has yogurt every night before bed, so we made sure to buy some when we were grocery shopping. We wanted to have a good signal that it was bed time.

 

Bedtime went much better than we had anticipated. Since we couldn't get her to take off her backpack or shoes all day, we thought that at bedtime that we'd have a major fight on our hands. Dana fed her some yogurt and then pulled out some PJs. Off came the shoes and the backpack and on went the PJs. No fight, no crying, just peace. Thank you Lord for hearing and answering our prayers. When Dana placed her in her crib, there was a little crying, but Dana was able to quickly calm her down. All in all, I think she is glad that it's bedtime, but she just didn't want us to get off that easy J

 

Good night our little angel. Sleep well.

 

 

Her Build-A-Bear bunny, Brit Nicole, has been a hit. We have dressed and undressed her several times today.




Getting on the escalator at the mall. This mall has a grocery store on the bottom level and that is where we were headed.




One of many smiles that we saw today. Escalators = Poor Man's Roller Coaster




I will not sleep. I will not sleep. I will not.....ZZZZZZZZZ

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Gotcha Day


Ladies and Gentlemen, boys and girls, please allow me to introduce Elizabeth YaLei Hofmeister. This will be a quick update, but just wanted to post a couple new pictures and to quickly tell about meeting Ellie. We will post more later. Ellie did very well throughout the appointment. She interacted with us, offered some smiles and giggles. She has a pretty strong will, currently we are trying to get her to nap and are not successful at the moment. She has taken to Dana fairly well, which is awesome. Dana and our facilitator went to the grocery store while Ellie and I waited for our family pictures were being developed (part of the paperwork process). She did OK for a few minutes, but then she started crying and screaming. As we walked across the street, she was calling for "mama". I was hoping that she meant Dana and she did! Once she saw Dana, she calmed down and wanted Dana to hold her. Great progress!! We are back at the hotel now, but Ellie won't take off her shoes or backpack. She fell asleep in the van for about 10 minutes, so we are hoping that she'll take more of a nap, since it's been a big day for her. OK, we are going to try making the room dark and quiet in the hopes for nap time. We will post more later tonight.




She has a beautiful smile. We were just happy that she would interact with us and even with smiles at that. So blessed.


She loves this backpack. This is the one that she won't take off at the moment.


It wasn't all smiles and giggles. She didn't like having her fingerprints done. 

Now in Hangzhou

 

The last day in Hong Kong was uneventual. We had a geography moment when we were trying to decide if we were going to an international terminal or domestic leaving Hong Kong, then we realized that EVERYTHING is international!

 

Our flight on China Eastern air was ok. The plane was a pretty run down 737.   We had seats in row 32, which turned out to be row 6, or row  2 of economy.  We are not sure why they started the numbering system at 31, but it was a nice surprise to see where we were.   They were in an extreme hurry for service and by 26 minutes into the flight, our food service had been delivered and cleared.  We had about 5-7min to eat our food.   They did come around with drinks, but only offered them to the row in front and behind us, we were skipped.  No big deal, just odd.


Our hotel here in Hangzhou (pronounced hung - joe) is nice – we are glad we are staying in Marriott properties. Because of the Marriott Rewards program, we get free room upgrades, free breakfast, and access to the Executive Lounge. All of these have been a great blessing.  This morning while we were in the lounge talking with the concierge about maps and things to do – a guy walks in wearing slippers and his bath robe and seemingly not anything else….  I guess the hotel has made him feel very much at home! HA!

 

Today the goal was to find this children's store that the hotel told us about, We just wanted to see what options were available once we know sizes and such. We walked and walked and walked some more and could not find it.  We were on the right street, but the numbers kept starting over… So counting down from one block we got to 285, then the next block the numbers started at 340?  We were looking for 278, but never found it. We did find some markets, an expensive grocery store and other things. 


After searching unsuccessfully for the children's store, we decided to recoup at the local McD's. I know, I know, we wimped out and should have tried the local fare, but it had already been an adventure and we just wanted to order by number :)  However, once we got inside, there wasn't a number ordering system visable and all the menus were in Chinese, so we got out our Kwikpoint card (card with lots of different pictures on it for international travel) and were ready to order. As we got to the counter, the cashier pulled out a menu that we could point to. Whew! We have been to McD's in India and Ukraine (among other places) and each had numbered meals to choose from, but not this one. Rob had the spicy chicken sandwich (unknown at time of order), which he said they must have got the recipe from India as it was a SPICEY chicken sandwich.

 

Hangzhou is not nearly as easy to get around as Hong Kong. It was difficult to determine which street we were on or which direction we were traveling on it. After some time, we figured it out, but it is not obvious. The streets and sidewalks were pretty crowded. Scooters sometimes travel on the sidewalks and are all electric, which is cool, except you can't hear them coming. Cars all seem to obey the traffic rules and drive in their own lanes (unlike Ukraine or India).  People seem to cross the street whenever and will do one lane at a time – sort of like frogger. After all the walking, we decided to hail a cab for the way back to the hotel and it  ended up being less than $2, which made us wonder why we walked so far at the front end of the day!

 

Tomorrow is the big day – At 9am local time, we will meet our new daughter and bring her back to the hotel with us. We still don't have a clear understanding of our itinerary, but we think the business portion of the day will be short.  We don't even know who will be there other than Ellie.  Communication so far has not been great, but we hope to be more in the loop tomorrow. Our anxiety, fear, excitement, and joy have been all over the scales today. "Gotcha Day" is always exciting, but is always very hard as Ellie's world is getting turned upside down tomorrow. Please continue to pray for her and for us as we both start this new chapter of our lives together.



Plane to Hangzhou, china




Room at the Courtyard Hangzhou




Gas masks for fire, provided by the hotel,




Fun treats at the supermarket.




Street vendor -- Bunnies anyone?




Sidewalks in Hangzhou. It's like a mini sturgis rally




 

Friday, June 1, 2012

Thanks to Lisa H. and Lisa S. for answering the mystery fruit question. It is called Dragon Fruit. They also pointed out that the comment feature was not enabled. To post a comment you need to click on the Date/Title of the post [i.e. "June 2, 2012 (Post #2) -- A Note about posting comments" above], then you'll be able to post a comment if you would like.

Long Day Exploring Hong Kong.

 

We were up and ready to go early yesterday (about 4:30am). We started the day by taking the ferry over to the Kowloon side of Hong Kong.  Hong Kong is such an easy city to get around. From the taxi system, subway/tubes, ferries, it is all very easy to navigate. We would definitely come back here again. While waiting for the ferry, we saw some vending machines that were funny so we thought we should share (Pictures below).

 

Once in Kowloon, we took the subway to near the markets and then walked and walked and walked. We saw the Flower and Goldfish markets on the way to the Ladies Market. Once we arrived at the Ladies Market, we were disappointed to learn they don't open till 1230 and we had about an hour to kill. Rob used his coffee honing skills to find a Starbucks where we enjoyed a coffee, snack, AC, and sitting.  We did get a little shopping done and then took the tube back to Hong Kong Island.   I use the word tube here because we found out that the "subway" is the pedestrian underground to escape the heat and avoid the traffic.   We loved that as long as we could keep our bearings.


On the way back to the hotel we were going to pick up the hotel shuttle at the train station.  Dana used her internal compass to get us to the right side of the building, but Rob used that important Amazing Race skill of RE-READING the clue!  With that, we realized that we were on the wrong level at about 3min before the shuttle left. Thankfully, we made it to the shuttle just as they were about to close the doors.

 

In the afternoon we went to Victoria Peak a.k.a. "The Peak". To get to the peak you can either hike (VERY long hike) or take a tram, which is what we decided to do. The wait for the tram was about 25 minutes and was very crowded with all the camera yielding tourists of the area. While at the top, we decided to eat dinner at a spaghetti place.  Dana ordered what looked like a baked spaghetti creation with cheese on top.  It came out – noodles, some diced tomatoes with a slice of American cheese melted on top and tasted like spaghetti O's.  So if you have a kid who is a fussy eater, you can create this and tell them that it is internationally inspired cuisine! Haha.  Rob's selection of the Japanese fried fish with curry rice was much better.

 

One of the goals of yesterday was to see the Hong Kong light show.  At 8pm every night, the skyline on Hong Kong Island lights up. To see the show, you need to be on the Kowloon side of the bay and that was the plan for us until about 6pm when jet lag was in full force.  We decided that we were not up for it and decided to hit the Executive Lounge in our hotel for snacks and refreshments. We did see a bit of the light show on the local news and we will probably buy the post card.

 

Today we are up early again (4am). Today's plan is to lay low at the hotel and to rest up. We will then fly out this evening to Hangzhou, China.

 

Please join us in praying for Ellie. She has been with a Foster family for the last year and a half and has recently (in the last day or so) been transitioned back into the orphanage. Please pray for her peace and comfort. Please also pray for her Foster family as they have loved her and had her in their home for a long time.


Vending machine at the Ferry selling fancy tissues and napkins. 



Corn soup from a vending machine anyone?



Hmm, canned sweat. No thanks, we were sweating enough already. Perhaps this company needs to hire a new marketing person who know the difference between sweet and sweat :)



A close call between our Ferry and local barge traffic.



View of the tube/subway. Very clean and comfortable. They even have electronic maps that show what station you are on and which one you are heading to.



Large turtles for sale near the Goldfish Market.



View of the Ladies Market. It expands for several blocks, but the same items are sold in several stores. You see the same things over and over again.



Dana and I from The Peak. Very beautiful views.



View from The Peak



Thursday, May 31, 2012

Hong Kong

We made it to Hong Kong. Both our flights (PIA-DTW, DTW-HKG) were on time and without any issues.  The Hong Kong flight was 15 hours long, which  seems longer when you are actually ON the plane that long. The Hong Kong airport is really nice and easy to get around. Passport control, baggage claim, and customs was a breeze (although it did take about 25 minutes to get through).

We took the MTR train from the airport (about 25 minutes to Hong Kong Central Station on Hong Kong island) and then took a 5 minute taxi to the hotel. Both were very easy to navigate and both were very comfortable. The MTR train was especially nice and comfortable. We are staying at a Courtyard, which is fantastic.   We were reminiscing this morning about our first adoption - no running water after 10. NO ONE spoke any English that was over 12, food was always a mystery etc.   Had we started our adoptions in Asia and then gone to Eastern Europe I think we would be in shock.   We had a great buffet this morning and thanks to the British influence we were able to have grilled tomatoes and beans.   They had Chinese food as well, but it was nostalgic and exciting to see the tomatoes.  They also had some "pork sausage" next to the grilled tomatoes - it was not a British sausage by any stretch and seemed more like a hot dog.

In the photos below, you will see some strange fruit. 2 points to whoever can tell us what this fruit was on our fruit plate.  It was like a cross between a watermelon and kiwi?   Not a lot of flavor, had to try it once, but will probably skip it tomorrow.

Today we are off for some shopping and sightseeing in Hong Kong.   The heat index is goign to be 96 today, which isn't bad for Hong Kong in June I guess, but it is still a hot day.


First Airplane out of PIA




Second plane DTW-HKG (Boeing 777). Sorry about the bad photo, all the windows had these dots on them.



View of Kowloon from the Workout Room in hotel.



This was my view from the treadmill during my run this morning. Simply beautiful.



Here's the fruit from this morning. OK, so what's the black and white fruit?



Silly picture with our younger two before we left.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

We're leaving on a jet plane....


This is the first post on our blog for our journey to meet and bring home our little girl.

 

This is not our first adoption, but will be quite possibly our last. We feel joy and sadness as we realize that this will be our last trip of this sort.

 

We started this journey for Ellie in February of 2011 – traveling in June 2012 makes this a pretty fast adoption all in all. We are all packed up and getting ready to say good-bye to Kyle and Megan (sniff sniff). We said good-bye to Nick yesterday as he left with his best friend and friend's family to have adventures in Minnesota.

 

We are flying from Peoria to Detroit and then are flying 15 hours to Hong Kong for a few days to recover from the jetlag and get acclimated to Asia.   We will then fly to Ellie's hometown of Hangzhou.  (See map).  We will finally be able to meet her and hold her on June 4th.   We will post at least once a day and promise to take lots of pictures.


We want to take a moment to thank Jesus for this awesome honor and privilege of adopting another child. We are thankful for His provision and for setting us on this adoption journey so many years ago. We are also thankful for our family and friends who have also made this possible by looking after our kids while we are traveling, praying for us, providing financial support, and loving the children that God has placed in our family. You are all truly a great blessing to us.


Let the journey begin...